tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post8237864111297349112..comments2023-11-05T04:23:05.050-08:00Comments on Finding My Way Home: Anyone for rabbit stew?thailandchanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10171731740204067889noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-35749860865750182782008-04-10T05:50:00.000-07:002008-04-10T05:50:00.000-07:00I haven't been here in ages but when I read this p...I haven't been here in ages but when I read this post I had to laugh.<BR/>This line in particular. "A decent woman would let someone know when she changes her mind not just change it."<BR/>You're allowed to change your mind whenever you want to. As for giving him advanced notice, how can you? You don't know until you know.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-10746720836365826642008-04-05T23:58:00.000-07:002008-04-05T23:58:00.000-07:00Yikes! And this is why I'm not all that intereste...Yikes! And this is why I'm not all that interested in dating again. <BR/><BR/>Be safe and don't hesitate to call in back-up if he doesn't go away.Lexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10916250495361008108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-35933874449425397882008-04-04T10:18:00.000-07:002008-04-04T10:18:00.000-07:00FREAKY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sounds like he DOES need a r...FREAKY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sounds like he DOES need a reality check... You ignored four phone calls and became self-centered?! I ignore phone calls all the time... I wonder what he'd say I am? lolJana Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11720367787031733691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-43692871899317344102008-04-03T10:32:00.000-07:002008-04-03T10:32:00.000-07:00How scary.How scary.niobehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08315267454529454063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-79966475254849678982008-04-02T21:21:00.000-07:002008-04-02T21:21:00.000-07:00Wow, that guy sounds pretty intense. I think you ...Wow, that guy sounds pretty intense. I think you handled the situation very diplomatically.Carlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08423696800295940382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-39393093135687584712008-04-02T02:19:00.000-07:002008-04-02T02:19:00.000-07:00My goodness. Just insane.My goodness. Just insane.Annie Zhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13511943107737624183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-11633547552657787682008-04-01T19:58:00.000-07:002008-04-01T19:58:00.000-07:00Fur Elise was my ring tone, too.. it signaled late...Fur Elise was my ring tone, too.. it signaled late night calls and drugs.. lol! <BR/><BR/>What a shame that technology has ruined things for us this way - such a beautiful song.<BR/><BR/>The guy? - NPD. <BR/><BR/>I need say no more. ;)SuperP.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06830641369098524799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-16108527262746913532008-04-01T12:10:00.000-07:002008-04-01T12:10:00.000-07:00First of all, I love Fur Elise...and sad to know h...First of all, I love Fur Elise...and sad to know his calls contributed to you deciding not to use it again.<BR/><BR/>And I just cannot believe he wrote you that email after all his so-called "endearment" towards you. Most of us at any point of our lives I guess, had/has to say no and had been a recepient of that...it just amazes me how he handled yours. Though for the record, I would say I admire your courage in writing that email to him...kind'a too strong actually for me....I have problems telling people to stop contacting me because they have like...annoyed me already. I think THAT I will try to develop. ;) <BR/><BR/>With how he react and flip from one side to the other, I would say you did the best decision in turning him down. And please stay from that person...I don't trust him.Sai Hijara - Ferrarishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05520502217532479038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-69070835797210691502008-04-01T08:18:00.000-07:002008-04-01T08:18:00.000-07:00Your caller seemed to be getting close to being an...Your caller seemed to be getting close to being an obsessive stalker! Not good. I hope he finally heard you and will now keep his distance and give up his fantasies.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16939152657551690867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-16241337936954791752008-04-01T07:42:00.000-07:002008-04-01T07:42:00.000-07:00Um yeah. I don't really have anything to add sinc...Um yeah. I don't really have anything to add since everyone has pretty much hit the nail on the head....still though, very creepy.LittlePeahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17890731735785145148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-63524441543158445802008-03-31T21:24:00.000-07:002008-03-31T21:24:00.000-07:00Susan, he doesn't know where I live.. and at this ...Susan, he doesn't know where I live.. and at this point, I'm reasonably sure he's gone. People like that don't have very long attention spans. He'd need me to buy into the drama for him to get any satisfaction. :) <BR/><BR/>~*<BR/><BR/>Jen, it really is. If you understood how utterly invisible I am in most situations, you'd know why it seemed so bizarre to hear from someone after seven months of silence - and to have him have those feelings. <BR/><BR/>He must have a very satisfying fantasy life. <BR/><BR/>~*<BR/><BR/>Meno, he was calling from his very own planet. I'm certain he's not familiar with the representational language of this one. :) <BR/><BR/>~*<BR/><BR/>BA, me too! I do not like drama in my life.. at. all. <BR/><BR/>~*<BR/><BR/>De, thank goodness some people call me now after quite a drought.. but I can do without that type. <BR/><BR/>~*<BR/><BR/>Janet, he probably won't. <BR/><BR/>~*<BR/><BR/>Rima, I don't know if he knows about the blog. He could probably find it.. but I think he would have left a nasty comment by now. So it's probably safe. :)<BR/><BR/>~*<BR/><BR/>SM, oh yes.. careful. Locked and loaded. :)<BR/><BR/>~*<BR/><BR/>Casdok, I hope he's not bothering someone else! Hopefully he's crawled back under his rock. <BR/><BR/>~*<BR/><BR/>QT, yeah.. I know how to draw 'em!<BR/><BR/>~*<BR/><BR/>Sensitiva, one of the things I fail to understand is how anyone could possibly want someone who doesn't reciprocate. But perhaps that makes me arrogant. <BR/><BR/>~*<BR/><BR/>Desertpea, indeed!<BR/><BR/>~*<BR/><BR/>Flutter, your guess is as good as mine! This guy isn't a kid, either! He's a 54 year old man!<BR/><BR/>~*<BR/><BR/>WBT, Thanks for the offer of refuge. :) I think he's gone. Really. He's crazy.. but he's crazy enough that he won't be able to tolerate my silence. <BR/><BR/>~*<BR/><BR/>Angela, LOL!! Well, believe me, a very vulgar name for him danced from my mouth more than once last week. :)<BR/><BR/>~*<BR/><BR/>Christine, thanks. :) I'll stay safe. <BR/><BR/>~*<BR/><BR/>Angela, that was my all-time favorite ring tone because I've always loved the music. Now I have a generic T-Mobile ringtone. That probably upsets me more than his nastygram. LOL<BR/><BR/>~*<BR/><BR/>Citizen, from your mouth to God's ear. :)<BR/><BR/>~*thailandchanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10171731740204067889noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-51354885898655222782008-03-31T20:22:00.000-07:002008-03-31T20:22:00.000-07:00There are some scary, scary people out there, I s...There are some scary, scary people out there, I sure hope you've heard the last of that one.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-31541358783174303202008-03-31T18:30:00.000-07:002008-03-31T18:30:00.000-07:00Chani ~ How frightening! I'm so glad to hear that...Chani ~ How frightening! I'm so glad to hear that he hasn't called again, but such a pity! "Fur Elise" may be always different for me, too. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you that all will be well.Angelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09609676792430545424noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-12212004851064641802008-03-31T17:12:00.000-07:002008-03-31T17:12:00.000-07:00that is truly strange, i hope he stays away--be sa...that is truly strange, i hope he stays away--be safe.Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04662448292809451387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-80845657890876566262008-03-31T14:51:00.000-07:002008-03-31T14:51:00.000-07:00HA! I have a blogging buddy who has another name ...HA! I have a blogging buddy who has another name for them - fucktards! Of course, I would never expect to see that on your blog - but I can say it, 'cause I'm self-centered like that! :)Angelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12153878171712341666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-70502141414749116672008-03-31T13:46:00.000-07:002008-03-31T13:46:00.000-07:00Holy Crapola Chani! I'm glad you were firm with th...Holy Crapola Chani! I'm glad you were firm with this guy and definitively let him go his way, but its creeping me out. I'm worried he's going to continue to stalk you, because crazy people are, well,...crazy!<BR/>If you ever need to hide out, I'm your girl. I know lots of burly men who are all good shots (are you listening weird dude?).<BR/>BTw, the stew looked great :)we_be_toyshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12100712745473031460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-29676863380246138092008-03-31T13:16:00.000-07:002008-03-31T13:16:00.000-07:00What the flying hell?What the flying hell?flutterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11828689769747130419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-8157922526801631272008-03-31T12:52:00.000-07:002008-03-31T12:52:00.000-07:00Oh my! Who needs that! To hell with him ...Oh my! Who needs that! To hell with him ...blooming desertpeahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03123794891431225612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-80626060068452847572008-03-31T12:27:00.000-07:002008-03-31T12:27:00.000-07:00I'm so glad that he has not tried to contact you a...I'm so glad that he has not tried to contact you again. I had a similar experience with an off-kilter friend who took my friendship to mean love... it was difficult to get him to understand that I'm that nice to everybody.<BR/><BR/>Perspective is a strange thing. I hope he continues to stay away!Sensitiva McFeelingslyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07041825389681834624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-57254037751528924872008-03-31T11:32:00.000-07:002008-03-31T11:32:00.000-07:00yes - be careful! Reality Check indeed...what a nu...yes - be careful! Reality Check indeed...what a nut ~QThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15544956727530046973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-17560091068271437242008-03-31T11:31:00.000-07:002008-03-31T11:31:00.000-07:00I think you handled that well, hope he dosnt bothe...I think you handled that well, hope he dosnt bother you again.Casdokhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03497897393162856190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-28606750043237711912008-03-31T11:26:00.000-07:002008-03-31T11:26:00.000-07:00sounds like you averted something very unpleasant....sounds like you averted something very unpleasant. good for you. be careful.Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05602868040771218507noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-8478922561663409232008-03-31T10:23:00.000-07:002008-03-31T10:23:00.000-07:00Uh, sounds very Fatal Attractionish, indeed, Chani...Uh, sounds very Fatal Attractionish, indeed, Chani. I hope he does not live close by (or know about your blog!. Stay safe!Rimahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15883046753707687727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-46563999021239512402008-03-31T10:22:00.000-07:002008-03-31T10:22:00.000-07:00Creepy, creepy story. I hope he doesn't call back....Creepy, creepy story. I hope he doesn't call back.Janethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00567374243896229606noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-71370634173931310142008-03-31T09:34:00.000-07:002008-03-31T09:34:00.000-07:00hope that's the last of him. I would have felt th...hope that's the last of him. I would have felt the same way about changing my ring.<BR/><BR/>(I have U2's "One," and I never realize it's me because a) it doesn't sound like a ringtone, and b) no one calls me. For which, after reading this, I am grateful.)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com