tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post9050903872801995967..comments2023-11-05T04:23:05.050-08:00Comments on Finding My Way Home: Phone-a-phobia.....thailandchanihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10171731740204067889noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-84554741043745064262010-06-16T01:20:17.867-07:002010-06-16T01:20:17.867-07:00I've often been the same... my friends oftne h...I've often been the same... my friends oftne have to call me... which they understand.. and I love hearing from them!<br />Frank @ <a href="http://www.todayloan.co.uk" rel="nofollow">Payday Loans"</a>Chris Burgoynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06757909499221634856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-86485409683367186572010-06-15T19:02:12.922-07:002010-06-15T19:02:12.922-07:00cash advance toronto This website is a great I app...<a href="http://www.aaatorontopaydayloans.com" rel="nofollow">cash advance toronto</a> This website is a great I appreciated it substantially<br />AAA Toronto Payday Loans 1172 Bay St #101, Toronto, ON M5S 2B4 (416) 477-2817Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-89267151688378892982010-06-09T22:13:49.574-07:002010-06-09T22:13:49.574-07:00Hey! 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I find this phobia so embarrassing sometimes and find it difficult to talk about it to my friends who are all very confident of making calls to strangers. I have even tried to force myself to pick up the telephone and make the call, but I get so nervous, that I shake when I am talking to the stranger and I fumble for words making the situation more awkward. This just makes me feel more inconfident and adds to my fear of making calls to strangers. I really wish there was a pill to cure this phobia of mine.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-87892771422597621512009-02-10T17:40:00.000-08:002009-02-10T17:40:00.000-08:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-70812079785768100132009-02-02T14:31:00.000-08:002009-02-02T14:31:00.000-08:00Great post because I can totally relate! I love e...Great post because I can totally relate! I love e-mail but haven't liked phone calls (either making them or receiving them) since my 20s. If the phone rings at home I usually swear. And of course at work it usually means more work!<BR/><BR/>If I have to contact someone I am much more likely to e-mail than phone. And the funny thing is, no one would say I wasn't a talker, and I'm not shy in front of groups so it's not like that. But I just find it annoying to have to deal with phone calls.Mauigirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15529827915262851910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-38540864749923547142009-02-01T17:50:00.000-08:002009-02-01T17:50:00.000-08:00I don't like the phone much either. And I avoid a...I don't like the phone much either. And I avoid answering it if I'm not wanting to talk. I fugure eople can always leave me a message.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-33592178712531211312009-02-01T08:39:00.000-08:002009-02-01T08:39:00.000-08:00I don't mind the phone, however, I have no difficu...I don't mind the phone, however, I have no difficulty not answering or turning it completely off when I don't want to be bothered. In fact, I haven't answered my phone in the past two days. If it's important, the person will leave a message.Carlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08423696800295940382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-49319267669782829572009-01-31T16:34:00.000-08:002009-01-31T16:34:00.000-08:00I thought I was the only one with this phobia. It ...I thought I was the only one with this phobia. It was hell for me because I worked as a reporter for so many years. But, it never went away.Ian Lidsterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14106994463366766471noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-26216024375756768242009-01-31T11:09:00.000-08:002009-01-31T11:09:00.000-08:00I think you're in good company. Several of my clo...I think you're in good company. Several of my close friends, and both D and C have this phobia.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02362687820368214420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-86674033057019323342009-01-31T08:17:00.000-08:002009-01-31T08:17:00.000-08:00I don't mind phone's. I just hate LONG phone call...I don't mind phone's. I just hate LONG phone calls.Leannhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03928537274114663807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-21541718895428662982009-01-30T08:21:00.000-08:002009-01-30T08:21:00.000-08:00I'm with you on most of it, except for the part ab...I'm with you on most of it, except for the part about asking if someone can talk at that moment.<BR/><BR/>I believe that if it's important enough for someone to make a call to talk to another one, it is also important - and respectful - to clear the time with them. I just ask "do you have a moment?" Then it's clear to the receiver that you're not calling to just say "hi" or to engage in idle chit-chat. The exception would be if I am not calling for any specific reason.RKKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14850964219198441878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-58965957510297094232009-01-30T07:14:00.000-08:002009-01-30T07:14:00.000-08:00I hate the phone and much prefer e-mail. And I wo...I hate the phone and much prefer e-mail. And I worked in a call center for 8 years (making and taking calls). I think it's normal to dislike the phone.Staciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03864188943134274344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-68108110981780523352009-01-30T05:23:00.000-08:002009-01-30T05:23:00.000-08:00YOU are NOT alone. I absolutely do this. I don't...YOU are NOT alone. I absolutely do this. I don't unplug, we simply don't answer. The machine gets it and if we feel the need we pick up. If we don't, we take care of it when it feels right or when business has to be taken care of. <BR/><BR/>I stew over making certain calls for days, feeling sick. It is pretty ridiculous. But that seems to be just who I am. (My husband too.) There's no pill. I wouldn't take it if there was. I think it's more ridiculous to be slave to your phone.Woman in a Windowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14747858840088922077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-65670174484268231882009-01-29T20:33:00.000-08:002009-01-29T20:33:00.000-08:00i'm not nearly as extreme, but I have some of this...i'm not nearly as extreme, but I have some of this, too. and my husband, I could kill him when he answers the phone call that I'm PURPOSELY letting go to VM and then hands it to me.painted maypolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06446625015003854710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-25631748996892169022009-01-29T20:14:00.000-08:002009-01-29T20:14:00.000-08:00What a grrrreat topic! I think I'll do a similar b...What a grrrreat topic! I think I'll do a similar blog post on instant messaging/online chatting. It really annoys me to get interrupted at the computer.Billie Greenwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08214111146566550821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-73213342190964321482009-01-29T19:59:00.000-08:002009-01-29T19:59:00.000-08:00I don't think I've even checked my voicemail in se...I don't think I've even checked my voicemail in several months. I rarely answer my cell phone. I do answer my home phone though I go through periods of screening calls. There are a handful of people I don't mind talking to on the phone, for long periods even, but in general I like to be in control of who I speak to on the phone. I HATE when I pick up the phone at home (not having caller ID) and it's someone I really don't feel like speaking with and I feel trapped in a conversation with them. Ugh. And, I definitely agree 100% about how people shouldn't answer the phone if they're busy. I don't get it. Why answer the phone then? I usually say that. lolDefiantmusehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03662821362051301388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-17923264001446359922009-01-29T19:43:00.000-08:002009-01-29T19:43:00.000-08:00Yep! We rarely answer our phone and I do my best ...Yep! We rarely answer our phone and I do my best to avoid making calls. I don't know what it is about the phone. I used to LOVE it. I think that over time, I've developed an allergy. Or, as your friend might say, I lost my phone muscle mass.<BR/><BR/>I don't know if there is a pill for this, but if there is, I don't want one!Carolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05996426286997454518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-39491805023901554062009-01-29T19:10:00.000-08:002009-01-29T19:10:00.000-08:00I hate making phone calls to strangers. With peopl...I hate making phone calls to strangers. With people I know, it's not so bad. If I had to do cold calling for a living, I'd starve.Ruth Hull Chatlienhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08797146501548509911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-51589848140578463702009-01-29T15:17:00.000-08:002009-01-29T15:17:00.000-08:00I am so not a phone person. I'd much rather email...I am so not a phone person. I'd much rather email or even text message (which I guess does require the use of a phone--but it is less threatening if you know what I mean).dmmgmfmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09872482306885344135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-8336877443166057182009-01-29T13:23:00.000-08:002009-01-29T13:23:00.000-08:00I'm with you on this one. I hate hate hate teleph...I'm with you on this one. I hate hate <I>hate</I> telephones, and go to great lengths to avoid using them.<BR/><BR/>I'm glad you posted this- now I know it's not just me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-22184040252106953712009-01-29T12:29:00.000-08:002009-01-29T12:29:00.000-08:00See, this is why I love email and facebook :)I fee...See, this is why I love email and facebook :)<BR/><BR/>I feel *guilt* when I don't answer or miss a call... I hate to be ignored and feel bad doing that to someone else. Like there isn't anything more important in their lives than talking to me. :)<BR/><BR/>I have phone~phobia at work lately.. I'm supposed to be calling my clients at renewal but I just don't feel like it. This is a bad situation!Amy Yhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06303953793008491241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-36589921283152125502009-01-29T11:28:00.000-08:002009-01-29T11:28:00.000-08:00I am 100% with you on this. I prefer e-mail, and ...I am 100% with you on this. I prefer e-mail, and sometimes those are hard for me too.menohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18065283682414369608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-3720183154595846892009-01-29T10:32:00.000-08:002009-01-29T10:32:00.000-08:00Actually, yes. I have this to some extent. I know...Actually, yes. I have this to some extent. I know that it's rooted in my deep fear of rejection which usually makes calling someone an act of bravery for me. Even though the response is usually positive.<BR/><BR/>I hope you find a pill. (I can't take pills very well either.)heartinsanfranciscohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07535397382991383931noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34955137.post-8406534657460880622009-01-29T09:54:00.000-08:002009-01-29T09:54:00.000-08:00I don't know if I'm phonaphobic, but it's certainl...I don't know if I'm phonaphobic, but it's certainly not my instrument of choice. I do understand about putting off that which is unpleasant; I do it all of the time.Anvilcloudhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07974744042579564912noreply@blogger.com